Salam.
I admit it's easier to criticize others rather than to try and understand them..and even if we try to, it's frustrating (and waste of time) if the other person doesn't reciprocate (T T)..
Lately, i realised that the more we understand our friends,the harder it is for us to be frank about things..kalau kat realiti tv show,the judges don't really know the contestants and that's why diorang boleh bagi really harsh comments..for friends,well--you can't really do that..nanti mesti ade yang terase hati (at least bdk pompuan kot)...So? what can we do kalau kawan kite buat salah? do we just stood back and watch? hoping that one day she'll come to her senses? tp org slalu kate, kalau sayang kawan kite tegur,jgn biar die terus hanyut..*sigh* easier said than done...
And the longer we knew each other,the less respect we have for one another..i find this especially true..why? after 5 years, do we suddenly take things for granted? a simple 'thank you' or 'please' is almost non-existent when you're friends..they are only used by those who are acquaintances..kite amek kesempatan atas kebaikan kawan kite..mentang2 la die penyabar,tak cepat melenting,we look down on them--as if we are better than them..mase tgh buat survey kat Tampin ni, i thought to myself; "kalau dgn org luar i can be this nice,why not to my family and friends?"
It is much more valuable to look for the strengths in others-you gain nothing by criticizing people's imperfections.
I admit it's easier to criticize others rather than to try and understand them..and even if we try to, it's frustrating (and waste of time) if the other person doesn't reciprocate (T T)..
Lately, i realised that the more we understand our friends,the harder it is for us to be frank about things..kalau kat realiti tv show,the judges don't really know the contestants and that's why diorang boleh bagi really harsh comments..for friends,well--you can't really do that..nanti mesti ade yang terase hati (at least bdk pompuan kot)...So? what can we do kalau kawan kite buat salah? do we just stood back and watch? hoping that one day she'll come to her senses? tp org slalu kate, kalau sayang kawan kite tegur,jgn biar die terus hanyut..*sigh* easier said than done...
And the longer we knew each other,the less respect we have for one another..i find this especially true..why? after 5 years, do we suddenly take things for granted? a simple 'thank you' or 'please' is almost non-existent when you're friends..they are only used by those who are acquaintances..kite amek kesempatan atas kebaikan kawan kite..mentang2 la die penyabar,tak cepat melenting,we look down on them--as if we are better than them..mase tgh buat survey kat Tampin ni, i thought to myself; "kalau dgn org luar i can be this nice,why not to my family and friends?"
It is much more valuable to look for the strengths in others-you gain nothing by criticizing people's imperfections.
3 comments:
Rie, well said.
thats y seorang ternama mungkin tak semua kenal dia, berkata, mcm mana kita layan ayah, abang, adik lelaki dan pak sedara yg halal ngan kita tu ialah seawal-awal praktis layan bakal suami. Forget the ..... part.
Sbb ayah pun suami orang. Abang bakal suami org, adik laki dan pak sedara pun.
Kalau org terdekat hidup ngan kita mcm tupun kita takleh handle malah nak bertekak, thats how you will act after 15 years you marry your husband. Vice versa for mother, sisters, and aunts for boys.
And this is not a fiction. Looks oh, so ideal ..
Tp ramai yg buat benda ni. Org terdekat ngn kita pun.
Harap izat tak keluar tajuk.
Adoyai (kata nabil).
Learn to love your family first.
SErendah-rendah ukhwah adalah kesejahteraan hati (bersangka baik, berlapang dada).
Even that pun saya susah nak buat.
Eh, dah 5 taun ke kite semua berkawan? Lagi 2 tahun ni
5 thn dh Izat.Sekejap je rase.
Kite patut jage hubungan dgn kengkawan kite sbb pas 2 thn,tak tentu kite akan jumpe lg,kan?
Tak dpt bayang nak pisah ngan korg.
teringat satu poem given by miss Q. pasal sorang mother bumped onto someone then quickly she ask for apology. tpi kat umah dengan ank2 skit kesalahan di wat pun die marah. kate Nabi "irhamu man fil ardh, yarhamukum man fissamaa'"
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